Taking my own inventory……..

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A lifetime

June 11 at 1:07pm Report

“I can’t believe you would call our sister and tell her …….. i hope you find enough friends to fill your time. i’m done with you. goodbye”

 

Wow, when those words came hurtling through cyberspace………

 

There used to be a little ditty that said, if one man calls you a jackass, wish him well and walk on, if a second calls you a jack ass, , check your shadow…… If  one more traveler see’s you as an ass; perhaps it’s time to buy a saddle…….. I learned a long time ago, I don’t get to pick your perception of me.  Do my sisters really see me as a bully? And, more importantly, are they correct ?  It’s hard to picture someone nearly 70 years old who can’t use her hands and is in almost to much pain to even move “giving someone shit”  Yet clearly this young healthy 40 something felt so threatened by me, she’s proud of “standing up to my shit” Maybe I need to look at what other people feel my motives are, try to see what they see………